Okay, so lately I’ve been struggling a lot with the need to conform to today’s technological standards. Maybe it’s because after several years of not having a facebook, I recently reactivated mine, or due to the notion that gadgets in general just seem to be ever present and over the top. Regardless of the reason, I can’t seem to accept that human beings are really meant to be living like this: through their phones and detached from actual life. I long for the days where people will put down their phones and engage in good old fashion face to face communication, turn off their reality television and immerse themselves in a good book.
Imagine this setting: a classroom in the 60’s, an educational film about life in the future. Images of camera clad traffic lights and humans obsessing over little screens dance before the children’s eyes. Then comes the knowledge of online profiles that detail all intimacies of human life, from relationships to milestones and previous employment, not to mention the hundreds of pictures posted for all eyes to judge. Nothing seems sacred anymore. I’m sure these children of the past would be terrified, yet in the present generation, we seem blind to the detriments of this new way of life. We find comfort in the instantaneous satisfaction instead of fully gauging the beauty of the bigger picture.
Conversation stands to be one of my favorite aspects of human connection. I love sharing knowledge and ideas. I love the look in someone’s eyes when I get through to them and I love the feeling of my perception widening as one gets through to me. It seems that all of these excess mediums are getting in the way of one of the most simple and fullfilling pleasures of existence: in person human connection. Sure, through social media and the internet we seem to have the world at our fingertips, but do we really? Or is it just a means to escape from our actual natural enviornment, to shift conciousness and enter a fantastical cyber reality?
I’m torn between keeping up with the times and being true to what I feel is right. I’m aware of the positives of technological advancement. I’m even taking advantage of it right now by posting this blog and advertising it on facebook. Sometimes though, I question just where the line should be drawn. Does anyone else feel this way? If you do I’d love to hear about it. If you don’t I’d love to hear why. Maybe I should be looking at it from a different angle and not harping so much on the way things were. yet I can’t seem to accept this less personable way of life. Time sheds light on all things, maybe one day we will find a more delicate balance between life through a computer screen and the one spent without the distraction, fully engaged in the present moment. I can only hope so…